Being generally quite healthy (minus the odd custard doughnut binge) and energetic it's bothered me a lot recently that Jazz has seen marriage as a free reign to stop any exercise and finish my leftovers. The result obviously being that he's gone from being sexy and lean to developing a small ponch and carrying an extra stone. All in the space of 3 months!!
For the past few weeks he's been going on about how he should do something about it but still nothing. Before it runs into something more I am desperately tempted to subtily say something but know how I'd feel if he said I'd put on weight. Surely it's important to look after yourself for each other though?!
Hmm I've been milling over this for a while now, not helped when he said I looked a bit 'too skinny' last night. Is it acceptable to say something or do I just have to suck it up and see what happens?
Nope don't suck it up !! Never bottle things up its wrong for him to critice you when he is the one with a problem. You could suggest that you take up swimming tell him you want to feel sexy in your bikini again and that you miss his six pack, hopefully he will get the hint its good exercise and can be fun.