Ok so you share your money but you work and should get a treat now and again. My ex-wife used to have an account her wages went into and somehow that was just hers whilst my wages paid mortgage and all the bills leaving me with diddlysquat. I still didnt go of the head at her spending. It seems controlling if you have to clear spending with him, I more…
booo not good although I have to admit I have been guilty of it myself when jen goes on a spending spree and we are trying to save although I am no good with the guiilt thing and its normally me that ends up hugging and saying sorry :( more…
Well f#$k, if your the only thing in his life that makes him happy, why is screaming and yelling all the time. From personal experience here, it's a give an take and working towards a happy and mutual understanding of each other. He seems like all he knows is take and he's the authority. Besides, how can someone be happy when all they do is get more…
Quit explaining your jokes, your only catering to her needs. Let her figure them out once in a while and maybe she will understand that they're not personal. It could help her grow up a little too. more…
God I hate people like that. They're just out to get attention and some compliments. They're selfish really as all they are thinking about is themselves. As you say the problem is getting rid! So goodluck! more…
it is always difficult but you need to be careful she doesnt drag you down to her level analysing everything and making you more than a little paranoid you might have to take the harsh route in the end if that is the only option she is leaving you with. more…
its always gonna be hard but if you enjoyed it then why the hell not it sounds like you had a good time its no use trying to compare it to DJ just have fun.
Hugs more…
He has a few but he's putting his 'focus into our relationship' at the moment apparently.
Genius idea although this is the same guy who flipped out when I asked who one of his friends on facebook was (all out of general interest, not an interrogation), so it could quite easily backfire. more…
Recent comments (30)
In response to: "Mini Breakdown" 559 days old
by Palmblogging [Member]
Ok so you share your money but you work and should get a treat now and again. My ex-wife used to have an account her wages went into and somehow that was just hers whilst my wages paid mortgage and all the bills leaving me with diddlysquat. I still didnt go of the head at her spending. It seems controlling if you have to clear spending with him, I more…
In response to: "Mini Breakdown" 562 days old
by Prettyintelligentprincess Pro
He sounds anxious about finances...so try and talk. Take care x more…
In response to: "Mini Breakdown" 563 days old
by kevinwilson Pro
why is life so complicated?
sorry you're still going through the mincer xx more…
In response to: "Mini Breakdown" 563 days old
by xmillyxxx Pro
((hugs)) Hope you have a better day tomorrow x more…
In response to: "Mini Breakdown" 563 days old
by boredrich [Member]
booo not good although I have to admit I have been guilty of it myself when jen goes on a spending spree and we are trying to save although I am no good with the guiilt thing and its normally me that ends up hugging and saying sorry :( more…
In response to: "Mini Breakdown" 563 days old
by smitty1247 [Member]
Well f#$k, if your the only thing in his life that makes him happy, why is screaming and yelling all the time. From personal experience here, it's a give an take and working towards a happy and mutual understanding of each other. He seems like all he knows is take and he's the authority. Besides, how can someone be happy when all they do is get more…
In response to: "Mini Breakdown" 563 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
:( *hugs* more…
In response to: "That's Me, An Insensitive Bitch" 563 days old
by smitty1247 [Member]
With any luck. more…
In response to: "That's Me, An Insensitive Bitch" 563 days old
by MistakenIdentity [Member]
No I'm almost the newbie. Turns out I missed the boat when everyone else decided to pretty much shun her. more…
In response to: "That's Me, An Insensitive Bitch" 563 days old
by MistakenIdentity [Member]
A little bit of tough love probably will do just the trick. Plus maybe then she'll leave me the hell alone too
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In response to: "That's Me, An Insensitive Bitch" 563 days old
by MistakenIdentity [Member]
Looking that way - it is my chief concern more…
In response to: "That's Me, An Insensitive Bitch" 563 days old
by Prettyintelligentprincess Pro
Is she new and does she need to find her feet...why agree to have lunch? Be firm, but fair.
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In response to: "That's Me, An Insensitive Bitch" 564 days old
by smitty1247 [Member]
Quit explaining your jokes, your only catering to her needs. Let her figure them out once in a while and maybe she will understand that they're not personal. It could help her grow up a little too. more…
In response to: "That's Me, An Insensitive Bitch" 565 days old
by neonmeatdreams [Member]
God I hate people like that. They're just out to get attention and some compliments. They're selfish really as all they are thinking about is themselves. As you say the problem is getting rid! So goodluck! more…
In response to: "That's Me, An Insensitive Bitch" 565 days old
by boredrich [Member]
it is always difficult but you need to be careful she doesnt drag you down to her level analysing everything and making you more than a little paranoid you might have to take the harsh route in the end if that is the only option she is leaving you with. more…
In response to: "That's Me, An Insensitive Bitch" 565 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
Tricky situation to be in and never easy to resolve, not sure how i would deal with it myself.
*hugs* more…
In response to: "The Post-Affair Rebound" 565 days old
by boredrich [Member]
its always gonna be hard but if you enjoyed it then why the hell not it sounds like you had a good time its no use trying to compare it to DJ just have fun.
Hugs more…
In response to: "A Comfortable Kind Of Love" 565 days old
by MistakenIdentity [Member]
Oh yeah, perfect mix! more…
In response to: "A Comfortable Kind Of Love" 565 days old
by boredrich [Member]
yummmmmmmm choccy cake and a smooch too what more can you ask for :) more…
In response to: "A Comfortable Kind Of Love" 566 days old
by MistakenIdentity [Member]
Damn it! I was caught out there. more…
In response to: "A Comfortable Kind Of Love" 566 days old
by MistakenIdentity [Member]
Oh cake (particularly chocolate) is probably the most important thing in the world...which is why I didn't save you any. Apologies! x more…
In response to: "A Comfortable Kind Of Love" 567 days old
by sexymf Pro
Being the pedant I am I have to point out it's Mr Lennon actually!
But love is comfort and companionship and as we get older lust often has to be found elswhere. more…
In response to: "A Comfortable Kind Of Love" 570 days old
by kevinwilson Pro
don't suppose you saved me any chocolate cake, did you?
i agree that love isn't all you need.
cake is very important, too.
xx more…
In response to: "A Quick Rant" 570 days old
by boredrich [Member]
its a blummin nightmare isnt it they are all out in force I swear they are ganging up on us as a vain attempt to get us all to slow down :)) more…
In response to: "A Quick Rant" 571 days old
by MistakenIdentity [Member]
Without a doubt something we could do with on the mainland x more…
In response to: "A Quick Rant" 572 days old
by kevinwilson Pro
this doesn't happen on my island.
i have introduced speed trials for all pedestrians.
if they can't walk at four miles an hour, they're banned!
xx more…
In response to: "A Quick Rant" 572 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
*hugs* its always the days your in a rush that the obstacles seem worse :) more…
In response to: "Never Quite Perfect" 573 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
Very True :( more…
In response to: "Never Quite Perfect" 573 days old
by MistakenIdentity [Member]
Haha wow overstatement of the century more…
In response to: "Never Quite Perfect" 573 days old
by MistakenIdentity [Member]
He has a few but he's putting his 'focus into our relationship' at the moment apparently.
Genius idea although this is the same guy who flipped out when I asked who one of his friends on facebook was (all out of general interest, not an interrogation), so it could quite easily backfire. more…